Guys! Guys! Guys! Hey what are doing on social media?? How can you do such things, really i wonder? Where is your Gaeraah? Where is your Haya? Okay let me remind all of you about Ad Dayooth.
Do you know about Ad-Dayooth, who is Ad-Dayooth?
Rasool Allah (Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam) said, Ad-Dayooth will not enter jannah. He is a man who does not have protective jealousy over his mehram women like mother, sister, wife, daughter etc. He does not even mind his mehram women are in proper hijab or not, he does not mind if they have boyfriends etc, he does not mind to show them in public without their hijab, he does not mind to show his mehram women to social media like fb, twitter, instagram etc. He does not even mind if they are going to haram parties and functions where there are mix gatherings. Rather he likes it if his mehram women dress like naked and walk with him. He himself upload their vulgar pics in to social medias like fb, instagram, whtsapp etc.
I request all of you to do not be like Ad-Dayooth and have a protective jealousy over your women folk.
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Could you be a Dayooth ?
What is a ad-dayooth?
A dayooth in english means “cukold”. It simple base terms, this is a word used to describe a man who wishes to watch while his wife has sex with another man. Now, you’re reading this and thinking…
‘- what is this guy writing about now? Who here does that?
But Islam explains ‘ad-dayooth” or the cukold man on different levels. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said : Ad-dayooth – la’ yad khullul janna
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: The ad-dayooth will not enter Jannah, so where will they go? In Hell.
SO, who are the ad-dayooth?
Ad-dayooth is a man who:
✦Allows his wife/sister/daughter to go out of the house not covered properly.
Meaning just because she is wearing a head scarf doesn’t mean she is in “hijab”. If the skin of her feet are showing, or she’s wearing a half sleeve t-shirt or you can see the shape of anything, or you can tell her bra size, then SHE IS NOT WEARING HIJAB. Because khemar = tudung, and hijab is 14 conditions.
So, wearing a tudung with tight clothes means you aren’t IN HIJAB.
✦She can’t show the skin of her feet.
Wearing a head scarf with skinny jeans/leggings and a tight t-shirt is not hijab. The man that allows this is a DAYOOTH. This could be your sister, your wife or your daughter. Are you not jealous that men look at these women up and down stripping them with their eyes. You are allowing to these men to have sex with them indirectly by allowing these women -whom YOU are responsible for to do whatever they want. If you think this is “extreme” then you do’nt know the Quran. Read the tafseer of Surah Nisa before commenting.
✦Men are leaders of women. Imams.
Now, its the other way around. The husband has his pants wayyy past his ankles, the wife is behind him all dolled up, high heels, pushing her butt out, wearing a corset to push her chest out .
Bro, what can you Not see?
I can see everything.
And if you think that a woman who shows the skin of her feet is wearing hijab then -like i said-read the Quran in a language you understand.
Ad dayooth is a man who doesn’t have a problem with his wife/sister/daughter sitting around non-family males and shaking their hands and mixing.
✦The ad-dayooth is a man who follows his wife’s orders ABOVE THE PROPHET’S (ﷺ) COMMANDS.
For Example: Bro, why do you shave?
Ans: my wife doesn’t like a beard.
Bro, Allah, through Jibril, through Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) COMMANDED us to do this. But, yeah, there’s always an excuse, this is man who lives to please his wife OVER ALLAH.
✦RIBA: I’ll tell you the most reason why men get into riba in the first place is because of their wives.
‘Honey, when will we get a better car? my brother/sister/neighbour/colleague is driving an accord/camry/alphard/ bmw? You know its haram, but she convinces you to do it because you love her, not remembering on the Day of Judgement she will run far away from you.
Be a Man. You think no-one is looking at your wife/sis/daughter when she doesn’t go out? Either you are Captain Oblivious or your wife looks like a man.
✦The modesty of our women faded when our men lost their gheerah.
Never marry a man who won’t enter Jannah!! The prophet Muhammad (sallaAllahu alaihi wa sallam) said “The Dayooth will not enter Jannah.” Who is the The Ad Dayooth?
- He is the man who doesn’t have jealousy on his Maharam (his mother, sister, wife …)
- He is the man who would show off his wife, her beauty and her style in front of men.
- He is the one who doesn’t protect her from the eager eyes of strangers. (Non Mahrams)
- He is the one who accepts that his wife go out with him wearing perfume, putting make up and wearing attractive clothes as if she is an item for sale to others.
- He is the man who is pleased by the admiring glances from stranger men toward his wife/sisters He is pleased by sharing her with them!!
- He would let his sister/his daughter go out with tight clothes, without her Hijab.
- He is the man who knows that his sister/his daughter has a boyfriend but he doesn’t care.
- He never has Jealousy on her and would let her show her charm to any one!!
So dear sister, never marry a Dayooth!
Abdullaah ibn ‘Umar (radiallaahu anhu) reported that the Prophet Muhammad (sallallahu alayhe wasallaam) said: “Three people will not enter paradise, and Allaah will not look to them on the Day of Judgement: the one who is disobedient to his parents, the woman who imitates men and the ad-Dayooth.” (Ahmad)
Ad-Dayooth is the man who permits women for whom he is responsible (eg: mother, wife, sister etc.) to engage in illicit relations, or to display their beauty to strange men, thereby stimulating their sexual desires.
Dear Brothers, he will not enter Jannah who will show off her wife, her mehram women in public.
MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US AND GUIDE US ALL.